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Calvary Church                       

105 West Maple Street             

Lombard, IL  60148                 

630-620-8899                         

The Rev. Emily Mellott, Rector  

The Rev. Tom Smith, Deacon, Emeritus

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

JANUARY,  2012

WE ARE A TEACHING, PREACHING AND HEALING COMMUNITY

CALLED TO GROW IN THE LIFE OF GOD.

Volume 24, Issue 1                             Web Site:  www.calvarylombard.org                           January, 2012

 

MESSAGE FROM PASTOR EMILY

Dear friends,

We start each January by remembering the magi, the “wise men from the East,” who come seeking a king.  We remember that God invites them, and guides them, and gives them eyes to see a true and unusual king in a small child, born in an ordinary peasant family.  That’s wisdom: the openness to God’s invitation, God’s guidance, and God’s self-revelation that the magi show in their travels to meet the infant Jesus.

Many of us begin the year by taking stock and making resolutions and plans.  It’s the perfect time to be alert for God’s invitation and God’s guidance in our lives.  And it’s also the month when the mornings and the evenings start – so very slowly – to get longer.  As the light returns to our days, we’re reminded that God gives us eyes to see God’s grace at work in the ordinary people and places of our world.

January is a time to focus on just how vividly God appears among us and around us.  We do that in many ways at Calvary.  On January 7, we’ll celebrate the 83rd birthday of our congregation with an Epiphany Family Party.   And on Sunday the 29th, at our Annual Meeting, we celebrate how God has been at work in our congregation’s life in the last year, and look ahead at God’s invitation to us in the coming year.

This month, I invite you to remember the magi, and to look for God’s wisdom in yourself, and in our community.  What invitation is God offering you?  Where is God guiding you this month and this day?  And how has God opened your eyes to see the kingdom of God, come among us on earth?

That’s wisdom – Wisdom for January and for a whole new year.

Blessings,

Pastor Emily

 

 


CALVARY FAMILY NEWS

This just in:

Christmas Greetings to all from Pat Campbell, our parish secretary of many years. She is very busy with her granddaughter (and the family expects to welcome a new baby in 2012), and she thinks about us every day.

and from Fran and Lynn Cole, who are enjoying life on the airport in Poplar Grove and send their best wishes to Calvary.

 

LASHMET NEWS!

Paulina Noelle was born on December 18th to Mark and Elena Lashmet. Paulina is welcomed by her parents and four sisters.

     We have all experienced the power of prayer in healing of body, mind and spirit and the joy of receiving a phone call or card.  Please remember the following Calvary members in your prayers and call, visit or send a card.

Hope Smith has had her last chemotherapy treatment and is pleased to be done. She is doing well. Tom Smith is still recovering from a broken wrist. They both appreciate all your prayers and cards.

Ethel Samela is still suffering from severe vertigo and hoping that a new doctor will provide some treatment or therapy that will help her. She has been touched by so many people’s concern for her health.

Jean Morris is still recovering from surgery on her Achilles tendon, but is out of the cast, in a boot and able to drive. She is looking forward to getting out and about again.

Helen Douglas, Mabel Brooks and Wilma Champene are all Calvary members that our Lay Eucharistic Members visit each week with communion, as they are unable to get to church. They appreciate hearing news about Calvary.

Please let Pastor Emily or Hester Bury know if you have family news that you would like us to share with the congregation through Crossroads.

For those in need of healing:

Calvary members (see family news): Jean Morris, Hope Smith, Helen Douglas, Mabel Brooks, Sally McClure, Ethel Samela, and Rocky Berrier

Families and Friends: Karen (recovering from coma, friend of Sue Doyle); Leon (stroke, Elizabeth McPherson); Hank, Christine (Marilyn Jensby); Chris (Hocks’ daughter-in-law); Al Masco, Baby Abby, (brain tumor, friend of Carla Castle), Sally (sister of Bill Kendall), Kelly (daughter of Carol Halla), Mark (son-in-law Carol Halla); John (friend of Pastor Emily); Chase (cousin of Drew Nolan); Steve Lazanas (recovering from chemo); Kathy (daughter of Dottie Cain); Kelly (Tim Cortesi), Perry, Corey, Rob (Jan Bruesch); the Douglas family; Pat, David (Hocks), Fran (Pastor Emily’s aunt); Barb (Grant Iannelli), Joyce (Dottie Cain);  Roy, Che, Brian (Marilyn Stein); Samantha (granddaughter of Samelas), Reecie-in Hospice (Dottie Cain.)

For healing from Cancer: Alexa (teen with lung cancer, friend of Joey Vitti, and Carol Halla); Carol (Gwen O’Loughlin) John Willets; Mary (mother of Don Edyburn); Sue (Billie Jean Shapotkin), Patsy (Tom and Hope Smith); Pete, David, Dyana (Cekal); Ellie (Vittis); Stan (Sari Chick), Terri (Coles); Tom (Gwen O’Loughlin); Karen (Sue Doyle), Tod (Grant Iannelli); Lucy (Dottie Cain)

For those in any need or trouble: Ashley (Smith), Kathy Sue (Cain); Brittney (friend of Annie Vitti); Cole Nelson (nephew of Ruth Ann Pfohl)

For those underemployed or unemployed: James Douglas (son of Helen), Brandon (Ruth Ann Pfohl); Bill (Cekals), Bill (Lamberis),

For those in the armed forces: Emily Skol, Erin Hinton (Lorraine Hinton), John Schroeder, (Morans); Michael Holley (grandson of Jack), Kyle Mahoney, Branden Samela, Thomas Richert (Tom & Hope Smith), Nathan Pfohl, Andrew Ziccardi (Mellott)

For expectant parents: Hope & Joe Serritella, Katie & Joe (Morans), Bob & Elizabeth Smith (Gladys & Tom)

For those doing missionary and service work: Michael Bruesch, teaching in Guatemala; Elizabeth Daubert (Pastor Emily’s cousin), community health in South Africa; Megan (Jennifer Ceplecha’s niece) teaching in China.

For those discerning God’s will: Maureen Elliott (discerning a call to the priesthood.)

 

ANNUAL MEETING

     Mark your calendars for Calvary's Annual Meeting - January 29th

     There will be one service that day at 9:00 a.m. followed by the Annual Meeting and lunch.

     Children will have Church School led by volunteer teachers.

     Please plan to attend to learn about what Calvary has done this past year, elect your new Vestry and hear our plans for 2012. Any questions please call Hester Bury, Grant Iannelli or Pastor Emily.

Hester Bury, Senior Warden

SUNDAY SCHOOL NEWS

Dec 25th        NO Church School

Jan   1st        NO Church School

Happy New Year Church School!

     The end of 2011 brought a reflective Christmas pageant.  Thank you to Lauren Szady for being inspired by actual Calvary parishioners to write and direct this yeas pageant.  Calvary church gives us so many blessings, inspirations, tears and hugs.  This church is very special.  Thank you to our special pageant performers; Santa and our two believers were amazing.  They showed us real Christmas spirit by giving the church a wonderful performance.  Thank you to the Bethlehem crowd; they brought the story to life.  Annie Vitti, wow, what a solo!!!  Special thanks to John Horn for the great sound system; every line was heard and reflected upon.  Thank you Pastor Emily for going along with Lauren's crazy idea and helping her perfect the story.  Parents, thank you for getting your performers to practice; without your help, there would be no pageant.  Thank you to all parishioners who support our youth; your praises, smiles and tears help the kids to be their very best.

     Church School will be back in full swing on Sunday January 8th!!!  January's Youth Sunday will be on the 22nd with the 1st and 2nd graders leading the way!!!  Have a blessed 2012 and any time you have questions or concerns about the church school, please don't hesitate to contact me.  Thanks,

Linda Szady, 630.268.9515

dduck30@juno.com

DOK

SATURDAY, JANUARY 28, 2012 10:00 a.m.

Mary Hanahan, President

hanahanone@aol.com

OUTREACH

P A D S

Tues/Wed, January 24/25, 2011

Calvary Outreach Update

     A big thank you to all who contributed to the Cathedral Shelter Christmas Baskets. In trying times like these, the recipients are most appreciative of the donations.

John Jaska

Cell 630-732-1189

www.grapecrown.com

Cathedral Shelter Christmas Baskets

 

Here are two of the letters from Cathedral Shelter families who received  baskets from us.

 

From Family 725:  Merry Christmas from too far away. This comes across the miles just to bring a wish your way for all the love and laughter of a merry Christmas day. We are very thankful for all the gifts you have given us this year for Christmas. Thank you for helping us have a joyful Christmas and we hope you have one as well. Thanks and Merry Christmas.

 

From Family 730:  Thank you. Your kindness may seem simple to you but it meant everything to me. Thanks again! Thank you so much for caring about me and my kids. May God bless you and your family.

Patty LeBlanc

 

WORSHIP

Christmas Weekend Schedule

Saturday Dec 24: Family Christmas Eve Service 4:30 p.m.  Carols, Children's Sermon (incense free)

10:30 p.m. Candlelight Christmas Mass. Carols, Choir, Festive Eucharist

Sunday Dec 25: Christmas Day One service at 10 a.m.

 

   CHOIR/MUSIC NOTES  

            Calvary’s Adult Choir rehearses from 9:00 a. to 10:00 a. each Sunday morning in the choir loft.

     YOU are invited to spend a few Sundays with us up in the choir loft to get the feel of things & maybe you’ll get the urge to join  us!

     You’d be surprised at the amazing inspiration our choir promotes during the services!

     If you have any questions, please call me at 630-932-1867.

Jeri Kellan, Music Director

630-932-1867

FELLOWSHIP/COFFEE HOUR

BAGEL PICKUP SCHEDULE

 

Jan   1            Ross Kellan

Jan   8            John Morrice

Jan 15             Marilyn Stein

Jan 22             Ruth Ann and Brian Pfohl

Jan 29             Katie & Greg Pardue

Feb   5            Sandy Hitchin

Feb 12            Ross Kellan

Feb 19            John Morrice

Feb 26            Marilyn Stein

     If you think of anyone in the parish who we can add to our committee please let me know!  Sally McClure continues to be available to assist us!

Much thanks!  Ross Kellan

Coffee Hour Cleanup

See Schedule in Parish Hall.

Many Thanks to all these Helpful People!!

John Morrice, Coordinator

 

EVENTS AT CALVARY

Dear Friends of Calvary,

     Events News at Calvary

 December has been a fun filled month of fellowship and celebration!

     I want to thank everyone who baked cookies for our cookie walk and to those that helped set up for the cookie walk.  Many thanks go to Lynn Honiotes, Grant Adamson, Hannah Dakis, Patty LeBlanc, Gloria Sparrow, and Hester Bury who helped with all the preparations and at the sale.  It was a great success!

     I also have to thank Hester Bury and Barb Simmons for a beautiful Christmas Luncheon!  The food was great, the crafts were so fun to make and the fellowship was wonderful.  A fun time was had by all who attended!

     We do have some fun things planned for the new year and I hope you can join us!  Here is a list of the events that are happening in the next few months.  There will be more details to follow in the church bulletins and in the weekly email:

      Epiphany party in the Parish Hall: Saturday, Jan. 7th-  See Sally McClure for more details

*Ladies Night out at Jan Bruesch's house: Friday, Jan 13th- Just come for a relaxing night out to talk and eat with some Calvary friends.  All ladies are welcome!

      Valentines Party in the Parish Hall: Saturday, February 11th- 6pm- See Jennifer Ceplecha or Jennifer Panegasser for more details.

      I want to wish everyone a blessed Christmas season and I hope you can take some time to enjoy the holiday and remember what the season is really about.  We are all so busy at this time of year and sometimes we forget why we are doing all of this celebrating.

      Jesus is the "reason for the season", and I know this year, I am going to slow down and take time to thank God for giving us his only son and to celebrate his birth. 

     Merry Christmas to all and I can't wait to see everyone at the upcoming events in 2012!

 Blessings to all, Karen Dakis

630-482-9564

mrsdak2@comcast.net

 

ECM NEWS

     Episcopal Church Men have been meeting at individuals houses. In lieu of that, we use Anyway's Grill in Villa Park as a backup. Come out and join us in fellowship.

Jjaska@Grapecrown.com

Den_leb@msn.com

VESTRY

Proposed Vestry Meeting Minutes for December 12, 2011

Present: Hester Bury, Grant Iannelli, Rev. Emily Mellott, Gloria Sparrow, Ken Pardue, Nancy Moran, Gwen O’Loughlin, Karen Dakis, Ethel Samela, Brian Pfohl, Patti LeBlanc

    The meeting was called to order by the Senior Warden at 6.40 p.m.

    Minutes of the November meeting were passed unanimously.

 

Ministry Reports:

Stewardship – Ken Pardue reported the pledge total for 2012 is currently $162,500. He presented the draft 2012 budget that was prepared by the Finance Committee. With one change to Events revenue and expenses the draft budget was approved unanimously for presentation at the Annual Meeting.

Outreach – Cathedral Shelter gifts were collected and packed for pick up at the end of November. The Vestry discussed annual donations to charities from the Outreach budget. With no contributions from Calvary members of new charities it was decided to make the following donations:

 

 

DuPage PADS                                 $1,000

Northern Illinois Food Bank                    500

for credit to Lombard/

Villa Park Food Pantry

Central DuPage Pastoral

Counseling Center                      500

Diocese of Chicago for

Diocese of Renk, Sudan              500

Seabury Western Seminary                   250

CDSP                                                   250

                                                       $3,000

 

 

Buildings and Grounds – Brian presented two estimates for fixing the flat roof and replacing the flat roof. The Vestry voted to do a repair at a cost of $2,640 to take us through the winter and review the need for a new roof in 2012. One boiler needs replacing with a new unit – Brian is getting estimates. The Fire Check Valve failed a recent inspection and needs repair at an estimated $1,450. Brian is still getting estimates for replacing the nursery carpet.

Fellowship – Caroling to shut-ins will take place on December 18th with refreshments afterwards at Ken and Lisa Pardue’s home.

Events – Karen circulated a new schedule for the remainder of the program year with chairs and co-chairs for all events.

Formation – Teachers will be asked to volunteer to teach a couple of combined classes on January 29th during the Annual

Meeting.  Ethel reported that classrooms are in need of supplies – she will prepare a list and shop for what is needed.

Treasurer’s Report

The Treasurer presented the monthly financial report, which was accepted unanimously with a thank you to Nancy. The ECW account still needs to be closed. It was agreed that the Treasurer could close the account with a $500 check to the Diocesan ECW and the remainder to Calvary’s checking account.

Old Business – The nominating committee met and several potential new Vestry members are under consideration.

New Business – Sue Doyle has resigned as secretary because of an offer of a full-time job. Emily has talked to one possible candidate, and we have asked members to ask family, friends, neighbors etc.  but it was decided to advertise on Craig’s List and maybe the Lombard Spectator group of newspapers.

     The Vestry voted unanimously in favor of a resolution that of the total compensation paid to the Rev. Emily A. Mellott in 2012, for services as a minister of the gospel, $25,000 is designated as a housing allowance under Section 107 of the Internal Revenue Code, and this designation of $25,000 as a housing allowance shall apply to calendar year 2012 and all future years unless otherwise provided.

     Hester asked if anyone knew about the possibility of claiming a refund for health insurance expenses by filing a 990-T. Gwen offered to call the Diocese for advice.

     The Vestry discussed the possibility of moving the monthly meeting to the second Tuesday of every month, so that Emily could attend Elmhurst Chorus rehearsals. There was no objection and this will probably start with the new Vestry in February.

     Ken asked that the Treasurer’s report be presented closer to the start of the meeting and it was agreed it could be presented at the beginning or as soon as the Treasurer arrived.

     After thank yous were voiced, the meeting was adjourned at 8.10 p.m. followed by Compline.

Respectfully submitted,

Hester Bury, Clerk pro tem

January Vestry Meeting

Monday, January 9, 2012 at 6:30 p.m.

ALL are welcome to attend these meetings!

VESTRY THANK YOUS

From the December 12th Vestry meeting:

Thank you…

…Brian Pfohl for wrapping our memorial garden Jesus in plastic to protect him from the winter elements while we do some restoration work!

…Everyone who donated in this year’s pledge campaign!

…John and Nicki Jaska, and Marcia and Dave Pardue, and everyone who helped fill and pack our Cathedral Shelter Christmas Baskets!

     (See Outreach column on Page 3.)

…Hester Bury and Barb Simmons for a wonderful Christmas Craft Lunch!

…Pastor Emily for an excellent formation session on spiritual gifts!

…Jan Bruesch and Jeri Kellan for the wonderful contemporary music on December 4!

…Karen Dakis for running a successful Cookie Walk and for the lovely thank you notes to people who helped with the Cookie Walk!

…Ken Pardue for a wonderful job leading our stewardship campaign!

…Frank Samela for finding our leaky boiler and keeping our water bill down!

…Everyone who has been so supportive to Ethel Samela in her illness this fall!

…Lauren Szady for writing and directing our wonderful Christmas Pageant, and all the actors and their families!

 

 

 

 

DATES TO REMEMBER

 

Jan   1             9:00 a.m. Service

                        NO Church School

Jan     7           3:00 p.m. Epiphany/Birthday Party

Jan    9            Vestry:  6:30 p.m.

Jan   13           Ladies Night Out:   Bruesch’s

Jan 15             SAMS Bake Sale

Jan   29           Annual Meeting:  9:00 a.m.

                        following the service

Feb   11           6:00 p.m. Valentines

                        Party Parish Hall:

 

 

Mark your Calendars for these events!

 

 

 

 

CROSSROADS PUBLISHING INFORMATION

Items for the February, 2012 issue of CrossRoads must be submitted by January 15th.  They may be left in the Newsletter mailbox in the Treasurer’s Office  OR

e-mailed to:  Linda McEwen at LMMCEWEN@up.com

OR Dottie Cain  dotcain1@comcast.net

If you have any questions, please call Dottie Cain at 629-8863 or Linda McEwen at 295-9972.